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[1 Mar 2010 | 13 Comments | 193 views]
Getting Gansta With Your Family

I tried hitting the snooze button so I could get in my usual hour and a half of “meditation” but I had a serious case of the heebie geebies. My spirit let off an atrociously high pitched alarm saying GET THE F@#$ UP AND WRITE. There was no dodging it. While I thought I could, I stayed bitching in my bed for 10 minutes (don’t worry I’m already getting counselling) about this very topic. 
I know not everyone reading will be able to relate to this here topic. Many of us …

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[18 Feb 2010 | 2 Comments | 149 views]
A Case Study: Establishing Boundaries

On my off time when I wasn’t blogging or crazy glued to my desk at work last month, I did a lot of reading. I put down The Art of Seduction (which I still have not finished ..have mercy) and picked up a book that I had read very quickly but finished before called The Secret Laws of Attraction by Talane Miedaner. I did a post last year on some of the key points I liked, but I never took the time to READ IT. The book has the reader …

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[18 Feb 2010 | 5 Comments | 158 views]
Your Secret’s Safe With me: Sex at City Hall

I wanted to roll a copy of yesterday’s paper up into a tight newsprint boomerang and whip it at the head of Adam Giambrone, Kristen Lucas and maybe Sarah McQuarrie (I haven’t decided yet, but if she were around she’d get it just cause). Who are these targeted victims of the Goddesses’ wrath you ask?
Exhibit A: Giambrone is one of Toronto’s 2010 Mayoral candidates,
Exhibit B: McQuarrie is Giambrone’s long time partner (ride or die woman)
Exhibit C: Kristen Lucas Giambrone’s 20 year old fresh outta sweet valley high on the side …

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[14 Feb 2010 | 12 Comments | 171 views]
Single on Valentine’s Day, and what?!

I’m up a little too early on a Sunday but that’s all good, I’m excited! I’m single on a day that celebrates love and togetherness, but coincidentally I’m also single on Chinese New Years which according to tradition is a good thing, because single folks do not have to give out red envelopes with money- MO MONEY MO MONEY MO MONEY. Side note: I am part Chinese, I don’t just play one on TV. Thanks. 
Ok so I’ve been M.I.A this week, well that’s because I’ve been living in my cubicle …

Dating, Goddess, Relationships »

[3 Feb 2010 | 18 Comments | 252 views]
The Guilty Tease

I recently found myself in the passenger seat of an ex boyfriend’s car. I knew how the situation would play out. From the lyrics he would whisper stanza by stanza breaking it down with a hypnotic rhythm and bass in his voice that would pulsate deep into my eyes straight through down to my spinal cord. I predicted the direction he would plot the take down, moving in on the right, sneak a kiss etc. I knew he would raise my body temperature with the mere mention of the photos …

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[3 Feb 2010 | 11 Comments | 164 views]
Can I Get a Witness?

This weekend your girl went to church for the first time since 199_, yea, I know a looong time. Ok, that’s not completely accurate, I’ve been to church in the new millennium but more as a representative of myself, than by will. See I don’t count showing face at Christmas or for a baptism or funeral as attending church, just cause most of the time your mind is focused on the celebratory aspect of the service than the actual purpose of attending church- to serve the Lord.I am not the …

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[29 Jan 2010 | 7 Comments | 213 views]
Pipe Dreams: Making it in the big city

I was chatting with the author of the blog Sunday Musings and she directed my attention to an article in the Toronto Star titled “Meet Toronto Girls with New York City Dreams”. She instantly thought of me and my ambitious ants in the pants self, as my addiction to New York is only increasing as the days pass-smh. For those who read my last post- Yes, Sunday Musings is aiding my addiction *winks*
I read the article hoping to get some inspiration, but my smile morphed into grinch lips as I …

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[29 Jan 2010 | 11 Comments | 309 views]
I Have Aided an Addiction

Sometimes we have to put ourselves on trial, I know I have lately. For what? Wellllll, I have recently come to terms with the fact that a close friend of mine has a drug addiction and has been performing sexual favors in exchange for drugs and money.
I am beyond heartbroken at the reality, but the cracks are quickly being sealed with logical cement.
I’ve spent countless hours strategizing, lecturing, and unfortunately aiding this addicted tortured soul. I haven’t handed this person drugs, pimped them out, or degraded them in any way…but …