Heyyyyyyyy…..I finally did it!! I figured out how to v-log (video blog) and upload it- yes yes yes!!
In the vlog I discuss two topics:
Inbox drama
Minimogulmodel syndrome
I also invite you to join the non-stop social networking party on Facebook —> Goddess Intellect
As I mentioned in the video the link to Sunnydelyte’s blog post—> Excess Baggage
I had fun doing this…I may do it again.
 
Please feel free to leave your thoughts & feedback.
 
I’m Shy,

Goddess Intellect

I recently found myself in the passenger seat of an ex boyfriend’s car. I knew how the situation would play out. From the lyrics he would whisper stanza by stanza breaking it down with a hypnotic rhythm and bass in his voice that would pulsate deep into my eyes straight through down to my spinal cord. I predicted the direction he would plot the take down, moving in on the right, sneak a kiss etc. I knew he would raise my body temperature with the mere mention of the photos …

*steps off the pulpit*
*takes out the fan*
*takes out the kerchief*
I’ve been crying so much that there is a red circle around my eyes and its just burning. I’ve never cried so much in all my life. I have been in emotional agony for nearly a month and finally things came to a conclusion.
Hold up….Conclusion?
Yes, in a nutshell I bared my heart for someone and they were unable to reciprocate the way I had hoped. They took their time to think about what they wanted and what I meant to them …

Bag lady you gone miss your bus
You can’t hurry up
Cause you got too much stuff
When they see you comin
Niggas take off runnin
From you it’s true oh yes they do
-Bag Lady, Erykah Badu
It’s reflection Mondays. Ok not officially, but every time I sit at this keyboard to churn out a Monday post, I just start reflecting and my thoughts are so powerful, ahh *shrugs* it is what it is.
I am a recovering handbagaholic. The addiction got so bad that I threw out shoes when I last moved before I would ever …

I recently had a conversation with a friend a few days back and we got on the topic of Christianity and dating. I’m not a bible thumper, I acknowledge that there is a god, and that we are the most high’s children, but I’m more spiritual than religious. Nevertheless I was raised in a religious home, Seventh day Adventist Pentecostal church of god, I got a few bibles, and religious books lying around. Oddly enough I have a series of books on Christians and relationships, these books were published in …

Boy meets girl. Boy and girl likes this. Boy and girl start dating and talking everyday- awww. Boy and girl then copulate and likes this even more then BOOM BOOM…you got a relationship.
Time goes on, a pattern forms, boy and girl appear to be comfortable and oooey gooey in love. Then girl notices that boy isn’t sweet talking and complimenting her as much as he used to. This gets girl suspicious. Girl then proceeds to pick up boy’s phone and quickly rummages through it. She finds a text from an …

I am a regular over at my e-bestie’s blog The Single Dame. Those of you are who are familiar with her blog know that she is the poster girl for keep it real and there is never a dull moment with Single. I respect the fact that she is open with her readers about her life as a single woman. With unforgettable characters like The Fuck buddy and The Antidote, her blog is definitely not for the light hearted. Yesterday she posted about her less than satisfying sexual encounter with …

 This week, I had an AIM conversation with one of my buddies Claudio E. Cabrera, an award winning writer, based out of the Inwood (Northern Manhattan) section of New York City and blogger of the always insightful Live Above Mediocrity blog.
We were just talking about our past/current relationships when the topic came to this:
“Do men/women want you more when you’re taken?”
We were going to write about this, but after chatting on AIM, we realized we had a pretty substantiative conversation on it already.
So, here it is:
Claudio: Let me ask you a …

My life seems to never have dull moment, especially lately. After the exciting daily routine of work and dog walking I crash on my couch under layers of throws and cushions, fix myself a (non-alcoholic) beverage along with something to eat and attempt to escape from the outside world. Yesterday after coming from the adventurous laundry room in my building I received an e-mail blast titled “Rupert Reallytho’s* Public Service Announcement!” I instantly recognized the name Rupert Reallytho. That was my ex boyfriend’s name- The Ex. The Ex I described …

It doesn’t matter where I am; I always end up in a conversation with a man who feels comfortable enough to share his relationship stories with me. I mean I don’t mind, I’m pretty much discussing relationships all the time, I enjoy offering advice and such but ironically I find it hard to take advice, hmmm. I spoke to a man in the nail salon the other day (he was waiting on his female relatives?) who told me about a failed relationship with a woman who he figured was “too …