I’ve never shared a kiss under the mistletoe for as long I’ve inhabited this earth. I’ve shared kisses with Tevin Campbell, Batman from the R&B group Immature, the light skin member of Kriss Kross and more recently kisses with grown up fantasizable (new word alert) men, only in my dreams though. When I think of the holiday season and boos, I hate to say it but I have very few pleasant memories, which probably explains why I pre-occupy my time with helping others.
Just once I’d like to wake up to …

Ok, I didn’t want to tease everyone with yesterday’s Holiday Party Etiquette post and not deliver. I will make this very short and sweeeeeet.
I do not support office/work relationships. I can’t imagine spending 8+ hours with the boo, drive with home with the boo, hop in bed with the boo, then repeat the same thing all over again, but that’s just me. I think it’s healthy to have separate lives and friends; work is a large chunk of that separation. Years back I worked with someone who was not my …

So by now hopefully you read the update- Big hair is in. Go big or go home! Many women who attempt to achieve this updated 80’s look are either turning to the aide of hair friendly extensions, hair pieces or just rely on extreme humidity. A few men on this site have expressed their support of the look, while  other men couldn’t care less. I recently watched the film Good Hair. It was interesting to follow Chris Rock’s journey that uncovered the once secret society of black hair. The one …

I’m not too big on Halloween. As soon as I started getting cussed out  by disgruntled neighbors for going door to door with my 16 year old self and co., I decided instead that I would just take my little sister out like a good big sister and con her out of her many bags of candy, “lemme hold that one for you”. I’ve also never been one to attend an adult costume party where everyone dresses up scandalous and naughty with the intention of going home at the end …

This year has been spent trying new things and branching out from my usual drudgery. Don’t get me wrong I’ve always had a high libido but never really met my match in terms of the level of passion and danger. In reading The Art of Seduction, I quickly learned that an element of danger is essential in executing any proposed seduction. Danger in the process, while providing a sense of security false or not, that is.  There is an abundance of blog posts, articles, directives and how-to lists on foreplay …

My motto’s always been; when it’s right, it’s right.
Why wait until the middle of a cold dark night.
When everything’s a little clearer in the light of day.
-Starland Vocal Band, Afternoon Delight
We often take the hours right before lunch through to right before dinner for granted. There is an abundance of clock watching, longing for the weekend or you may be so damn busy that time flies by and before you know it the sun has started to set. Most of us are on that 9-5 hustle and sometimes it seems …

I’m into astrology. I’ve been given warnings of caution and other negative criticism (Obeah?), naturally because we are taught that deep involvement with astrology is demonic. I don’t have good listening skills so I involve myself in it despite what others say. Astrology is one of the oldest sciences stretching back to approximately 3rd millennium BC. Our ancestors studied the sun, moon and stars (non-demonic creations) and used that information to read people. I agree that too much involvement or involvement with ill intent can lead you astray, but I am …

In the summer I was on the phone with one of my girlfriends and in the background her teenaged cousin was gushing over pictures he had seen of me on her Facebook page. Cool, whatever- puppy love?
I replied back playfully saying that he wouldn’t be able to handle me.
He then said that he knows a lot more than I think he knows.
“Like what?” I snapped.
“What do you know about the Brazilian Bedlock?”
“The Brazilian what? That’s a country in South America.”
This little boy had both my girlfriend and I puzzled, and …

“Perhaps I’m your subject or just your muse. It feels so damn good to be used, when you know I am the only one. “(Raheem Devaughn, Desire)
This Friday I’m feeling very sensual, as opposed to fire engine red hot. I prefer caresses instead of a fondle, to be held instead of positioned, to be titilated and stimulated  to the point where this writer’s block and all life’s frustration transforms into ecstasy. While listening to Raheem Devaughn’s Desire I started to think of what drives and inspires me to write and …

Admin Note: We made it! First week down and many more to go! Big shout to everyone who followed the instructions on my old blog and followed me to my new uppity, saddity and fabulous new blog home. I hope you got your drink in hand because this Friday my E-Bestie The Single Dame® is blessing the blog with some raunchy McNasty goodness. Not one to hold her e-tongue for nobody, please be warned that this post will contain more cussing and explicit language than usual (YES!). If this is …