First off I’d like to thank folks for their feedback on the pictures I posted a couple days ago, positive and negative. For the record, I’m not tryna become a model, a video girl, a porn star none of that. I write muthafucka, I write. And I’m hoping one day soon to venture into the wonderful world of column writing, which involves presenting an image that readers will gravitate towards. Yea that image is a mix of sexy and smarts, that’s what I bring to the table. If you’ve ever …

I finally got a chance to read more of my book club selection The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene. Today I just had to go in on the topic of Anti-Seducers. I think that recognizing an anti-seducer is equally as important as recognizing types of seducers. Greene writes that we all have anti-seductive qualities in our personalities that are brought out by our insecurities. The difference between a chronic anti-seducer and common man is that they fail to work past these insecurities to the point where they are oblivious …

Hey everybody! First off, Happy Thanksgiving to all my American GI readers, I’m grateful for each and every one of you *kisses* Secondly, its official, the Holiday madness is in full effect. This means parties, gatherings, liquor, food, more food, gift giving, last minute shopping, mistletoe, snow and all that good stuff. I opted out of our company party this year and have decided to fill my social holiday calendar with networking events, networking OUTSIDE of work. I’m sure I’m not alone, with the market still in a period of …

“Our personalities are often molded by how we are treated…Never mistake people’s exterior characteristics for reality, for the character they show on the surface may be merely a reflection of the people with whom they have been most in contact, or a front disguising its own opposite.”
Robert Greene, The Art of Seduction (pg.85)
I read this passage and instantly think of the people I’ve come across in my life who I have deemed difficult or incompatible. I find this passage helpful in enabling me to mentally and emotionally deflect negative actions …