despite the different communication styles, one thing remains, PPL will only treat you the way you allow them to treat you. A lot of the time the men I’m hearing this from felt somehow obligated to stay with these women…OBLIGATED?! As far as I’m concerned the only thing any of us should be obligated to is our sanity. But like I said some of us need to argue, cuss each other out for a resolution….some of us just need to ask more questions and be honest and open…and most importantly approach every issue with compassion.
A lot easier said than done, but worth the effort in the long run.

Inseparable is kinda sickening to me. Even when I was co-habiting, I had moments and days where I wouldnt even talk to him and would stay posted up in my room.
I so agree with you, I think I’m repelled by the whole inseparable/domestication factor because I’ve seen it completely transform a person to the point where they are unable to think and do for themselves….however I’ve also seen the opposite.

I’m very very very single at the moment, haha, but when I’m involved, I also don’t feel the need to discuss my relationship in detail with anyone. I pull a Jay-Z & Beyonce, I have no comment. Too many people involved is a recipe for disaster.

I also am not the kind of woman to get so caught up in a man that I lose myself. I still find time for friends, family, and whatever else is going on. I think it’s quite healthy to do things solo. He has his interest and you have yours. You can meet up after. As Nightfall says, “…I’ve also see many a female lose themselves in the gushing glory of a relationship…..” TRUTH!

Be careful with those that say that….being “inseparable” is cute and makes for great movies and romance books but I’ve also seen many a female lose themselves in the gushing glory of a relationship…..

We do think and react differently from men. I agree that a lot of us make our own issues. We think and blame the men, but sometimes it’s because we over think things. I blame that on what Trueman said, “But a lot of it comes from us not being able to talk to each other.” We over think and drive ourselves crazy because a man won’t sit down and give us the answers we’re so desperately seeking. So we jump to all kinds of conclusions and act “crazy”.

That’s my take on it anyway. I’ve never been the crazy girlfriend. I’m pretty good and keeping the thoughts to myself until I’m able to have a sit down or phone conversation with the male that’s causing me anxiety. Lol. Good one, great argument and we need another blogtalk…hint hint.