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We Are Equal but I’m Not Color Blind

April 28, 2009 2 Comments

I briefly mentioned in the “That’s why you don’t have a man” post that I was not ready to try cream in my coffee, although I find men of other races attractive. I am the bi product of an interracial relationship, I support anyone in an interracial relationship, but I am weary of the way ...

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You are mixed, but I don't consider you to be black

February 3, 2009 15 Comments

Not too long ago I found myself having a conversation with an ig’nant summabitch when the topic of my racial background came up. For those who do not know me, I am bi-racial, my mother is Chinese and my father is a black Jamaican. Somewhere in this conversation I stated that I consider myself to ...

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Goddess Was There: Honey Jam 2K10

Mid-August I was given another assignment from TorontoArtsandEvents! to cover the 15th anniversary of the annual All-Female showcase Honey...

Friendship: Dealing with Guilt Trips and Silent Treatment

No one enjoys being the friend who “did wrong” or “messed up”. In the same, no one enjoys being...

Intimacy: Listen When Listening is Needed

I have always thought that a fulfilling relationship meant that each person’s needs were 100% met by the other...

No, This is Not the Black Web Blog Award Thang, But Please Take the Time & Vote!

I entered a local blogging contest just for kicks, at the persuasion of a co-worker. The task was to...

Urinal Talk: The adventures of being the only woman in a man-only convo

I have always had an easier time relating to my guy friends than my girlfriends, but as I grow...

True or False: Never believe anything your lover says in the first month of a relationship

I’ve been gushing over my new literary discovery , a book called, “Modern Mantras”. It’s a collection of just...

Watch We Palancin’: Caribana ’10 Recap

Palance: a word used by Trinidadians to reflect a sense of enjoyment, fun, and partying. Dear gawd, my reggae...

Goddess Spotlight: Ashley Wilkerson

Dallas native Ashley Wilkerson hit me up via my contact page last year, to say whats up and I’ve been...


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